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Are You Obsessed with Your Customers?

November 14, 2022

Every time I return to Dubai, I am inspired. Not that long ago, this small town on the edge of a very big desert was trans­formed by the vision of its lead­ers. Because I’ve been to the Mid­dle East well over 50 times, a recent return to work with a client felt like going to my sec­ond home. It was a great chance to catch up with some amaz­ing peo­ple to see how they con­tin­ue to grow and thrive.

In dozens of inter­est­ing and impact­ful con­ver­sa­tions with peo­ple in the com­pa­ny I was work­ing with, I heard how they were obsessed with doing spec­tac­u­lar work for their cus­tomers. Yes, obsessed.

Every­one in the com­pa­ny worked incred­i­bly hard to make sure their cus­tomers were hap­py and the proof was in their cus­tomer sat­is­fac­tion rat­ings. They were so high for the scale and type of busi­ness, I didn’t believe them. But after pres­sure test­ing by dig­ging into the data, I found them to be absolute­ly true. That explains the amount of busi­ness that comes from cus­tomers refer­rals. When cus­tomers are thrilled with their expe­ri­ence, they want to keep doing busi­ness with you, and they want oth­ers to join in.

Cus­tomer obses­sion and high expec­ta­tions of cus­tomer ser­vice do take more proac­tive ener­gy and dis­ci­pline – and often more than pays for itself because peo­ple on the team get more pos­i­tive feed­back from clients and feel good about what they are doing.

What Cus­tomers Want

In col­lege, I did a research project on what cus­tomers want­ed after a ser­vice fail­ure. The find­ings weren’t sur­pris­ing: they want peo­ple to take respon­si­bil­i­ty, to acknowl­edge the mis­take and show empa­thy, to sin­cere­ly apol­o­gize and pos­si­bly, to offer resti­tu­tion. An apol­o­gy was con­sid­ered the most valuable.

In fact, how you respond to a cus­tomer when things go wrong can be a real test of your values.

One of our team, who reg­u­lar­ly bought a nat­ur­al hair con­di­tion­ing prod­uct was shocked when a recent treat­ment result­ed in bright red hair (she’s a brunette). When she called the store where she pur­chased it, the retail­er was more upset than she was, apol­o­gized pro­fuse­ly and promised to inves­ti­gate. With­in an hour, they called to say that a mis­take was made in pro­duc­tion when, instead of con­di­tion­er, hen­na was put in the jar. When asked what they could do to make this bet­ter, my col­league said she’d appre­ci­ate a free jar of the right prod­uct and noth­ing more because they took respon­si­bil­i­ty for their mis­take and tried to do every­thing they could to make it right.

I loved this sto­ry because it shows invest­ing in your cul­ture and val­ues helps you to take care of your cus­tomers even when things go wrong.

And things will always go wrong. Each time is a moment of truth and an oppor­tu­ni­ty to enhance, rather than hurt, the rela­tion­ship with your customer.

The Chal­lenge

  • From 0 to 10, how would you rate your com­pa­ny when it comes to cus­tomer obsession?
  • What has to hap­pen to be a 10 or notably clos­er to a 10?

Addi­tion­al Podcasts

Episode 111: What is NPS 3.0 and how can you bring it to life in your company?

Episode 78: 4 ques­tions lead­er­ship teams need to ask their customers

Addi­tion­al Blogs

Why you need to upgrade to NPS 3.0

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Lawrence & Co’s work focuses on sustainable and enhanced growth for you and your business. Our diverse and experienced group of advisors can help your leaders and executive teams stay competitive through the use of various learning tools including workshops, webinars, executive retreats, or one-to-one coaching.

We help high-achieving leaders to have it all – a great business and a rewarding life. Contact us for simple and impactful advice. No BS. No fluff.