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Podcast Ep 59 | Confront the Brutal Facts

May 24, 2021

One of the key con­cepts from Jim Collins is that teams must reg­u­lar­ly con­front the bru­tal facts. Not the opin­ions or the hopes or dreams, but the facts.

For many lead­ers, charis­ma can be as much a lia­bil­i­ty as an asset. Your strength of per­son­al­i­ty can sow the seeds of prob­lems when peo­ple fil­ter the bru­tal facts from you. You can over­come the lia­bil­i­ties of hav­ing charis­ma, but it does require con­scious attention.

It’s impor­tant to reg­u­lar­ly dis­cuss these bru­tal facts so we can catch prob­lems ear­ly before they turn from small prob­lems into large problems.

In this episode, we talk about how to man­age bru­tal facts in your busi­ness and how they can be an incred­i­ble thing for you to focus on.

EPISODE TRAN­SCRIPT

Please note that this episode was tran­scribed using an AI appli­ca­tion and may not be 100% gram­mat­i­cal­ly cor­rect – but it will still allow you to scan the episode for key content.

Brad Giles 05:04

So today, we are talk­ing about the bru­tal facts. The bru­tal facts are things that peo­ple are reluc­tant to talk about in a busi­ness. It is one of my favorite top­ics, every sin­gle quar­ter­ly work­shop and annu­al work­shop. I’m talk­ing about this with teams, what is the bru­tal facts? What are the things that you’re reluc­tant to talk about? Bring out your bru­tal facts, bring them out, and we will put them on the table? What an inter­est­ing top­ic we can talk about today.

Kevin Lawrence 05:35

Yes, I love them too Brad, because what we found is a lot of times when we go into com­pa­nies, they’ve been danc­ing around the core issues, and they’re not real­ly talk­ing about with any talk about it. And it takes us a boat­load of courage and con­vic­tion to do it. It’s not easy for a lot of peo­ple if, espe­cial­ly if you don’t have a lot of trust. Yeah. And it’s part of our dis­ci­pline where we just, it’s almost like we cre­ate a safe space, we cre­ate an envi­ron­ment where all those tougher issues can come out and get resolved. And I love it. Because you know, when you deal with the ugli­est issues, there’s not much that goes wrong with the busi­ness. There’s just every day. But when there’s these rot­ten, stew­ing things in the mid­dle of the busi­ness, we real­ly hurt the busi­ness that reminds me when it comes to busi­ness­es, you know, and bank­rupt­cies, which is not a nice thing I remem­ber I sat beside this guy, and I should kind of look him up. His name was Russ law, prob­a­bly 20 years ago. And when you go to those break­fast events, right, like a cham­ber of com­merce, you go to a break­fast event or a work­shop, and there’s eight peo­ple at the table and Hey, who are you and you meet every­one, I kind of miss doing that. Actu­al­ly, I did­n’t love it. But I would love to do it again. And I sat beside this guy, his name is Russ law, and he was a trustee in bank­rupt­cy and he was the best. And you know, in Cana­da, where I’m from, you know, we have this the one of the best hock­ey play­ers, when I grew up was named Wayne Gret­zky. He was like leg­endary hock­ey play­er, but he’s kind of like the Wayne Gret­zky of bank­rupt­cies. So I’m curi­ous as hell and I’m talk­ing to receive on rust, like, how is it that these com­pa­nies end up going under? Like, what’s the deal? And he goes, you know, at least half the cas­es, it was known issues that they ignored. He said he used he used the metaphor of the ostrich putting his head in the sand. They just had an issue. And they did­n’t address it. And it took a while to go. Okay, thanks. Thanks for us. Let’s just do some hope. The oth­er half he goes, it depends. You could chalk it up to exter­nal fac­tors and oth­er things and then went back 20 years. So you know, for us is lis­ten­ing, I’m para­phras­ing a 20 year old con­ver­sa­tion here. But he goes, a bunch of those, I think could have been con­trolled as well.

Brad Giles 07:59

Yeah.

Kevin Lawrence 08:00

Yeah. And so what he real­ly left me think­ing is, hmm, the great­est risk to our busi­ness­es is inter­nal. It’s us. And in often cas­es, our will­ing­ness to put forth and deal with these bru­tal facts that can affect us, no dif­fer­ent metaphor­i­cal­ly, than if you’ve got a tooth that’s sore. And you choose not to go to the den­tist, it might get to the point instead of being repaired, it’s got to be replaced, or ful­ly removed, and some, you know, nasty den­tal work. So any­way, that’s, that’s, that’s why I’m real­ly pas­sion­ate about this, because it just reminds my whole career is that if you leave these issues fes­ter, they get worse. $1,000 prob­lem turns into a 10,000 or $100,000, or a mil­lion dol­lar prob­lem. And I’ve seen it again and again. Yeah, and ver­sus like, so no, that’s so that’s the way I look abroad, what’s your take on beau­ti­ful things called bru­tal facts,

Brad Giles 09:02

I want to react to what you said, and then move on to that. So there’s an old say­ing, which is I went broke real­ly, real­ly slow­ly. And then real­ly, real­ly quick­ly, it builds up. Now it could be about going broke. But it could­n’t be about the per­son who sits at the desk on the in the cor­ner that no one wants to talk to who is a tox­ic a play­er, it could be a bet­ter cus­tomer, it could be a bet­ter process or sys­tem. It could be about any of these things. But unless we can clear up these prob­lems that peo­ple are reluc­tant to talk about. It has a man­i­fest­ly awful impact on the busi­ness, espe­cial­ly when you get a heap of these things of build­ing up. And peo­ple. You know, peo­ple don’t want to work in that envi­ron­ment. Now, I love that sto­ry. And it’s a great extreme exam­ple. We know the dam­age that peo­ple are the wrong process­es or not exe­cut­ing well. All of the things That could come out of the bru­tal facts could cre­ate. So yeah, it’s inter­est­ing. We, I talk about it every quar­ter­ly and annu­al off site, I’m guess­ing that you’re the same Kevin,

Kevin Lawrence 10:18

for every sin­gle quar­ter, no way with­out fail. I per­son­al­ly think it is one of the most impor­tant points on the agen­da, even, even to the point, Brad, where we do sur­veys in advance to pre ask ques­tions. Yeah. So peo­ple can flush it out and do it anony­mous­ly. We do it mul­ti­ple lev­els in orga­ni­za­tions some­times. Because I want to know, even Brad, in those prep ques­tions. I have a spot where they can sub­mit to me pri­vate­ly, a super bru­tal fact that they don’t want even to put in a sur­vey. Yeah. Because it’s just it’s, it’s every oth­er­wise we can be wast­ing our time address­ing all these nice lit­tle strate­gies or tac­tics, when there’s a nuclear bomb over in the left hand cor­ner of the room that we’re not even aware of. So yeah, every quar­ter, and we dig deep to real­ly exca­vate them.

Brad Giles 11:19

I mean, I’ve had meet­ings, full day meet­ings, where we talk about the ele­phants or the bru­tal facts. And that actu­al­ly changes the whole agen­da for pret­ty much Yes, I’d say 80% of the day, and I’ve spent I’ve gone in and allo­cat­ed 3045 min­utes to this sub­ject, we end up speak­ing about it for two or three hours. And at the end of the day, peo­ple say, look, that was the most valu­able item of the day, but you’ve got to clear up these things. Every­one feels bet­ter after­wards. And yeah, you’ve got to get these things out the way and what I when peo­ple know­ing that it’s on the agen­da and that it’s com­ing up, what peo­ple would often say is that, you know, they’re real­ly look­ing for­ward to the ele­phants part of the day because they know that we’re going to con­front this ter­ri­ble issue that’s been weigh­ing them down. So cor­rect. such an impor­tant agen­da item it really

Kevin Lawrence 12:17

it is and I want to touch on ele­phants. Now I got­ta say I got a bias you know, ele­phants in the room it’s been used for a lot of years and it’s good but I kind of pre­fer rats and and moose

Brad Giles 12:34

you know, I got a clien­t’s name giv­en my I worked rats and mice No,

Kevin Lawrence 12:38

no rights and moose The thing with the big antlers like you would think of being in Cana­da, where we are so so there’s a great a great founder CEO down in Texas named Phil min­er. He brought me into his com­pa­ny. They bought anoth­er com­pa­ny and built an amaz­ing plat­form to for growth. And he brought me into work with a group and you know Phil used to call it chuck­ing the dead rats on the table. That’s the way they would call it down in Texas, like there’s like a there’s dead rats, we got to check them on the table, we got to deal with them, don’t just leave them and sweep them off into the cor­ner. Yeah, anoth­er entre­pre­neur. up in Cana­da, Blaine is his first name he would call it Chuck into moose on the table, because he was up in north­ern Cana­da neigh­bor­hood, they would have moose there. And he’s also a hunter. So he would think in those terms, but Chuck the moose on it. So it does­n’t mat­ter your ani­mal The thing is, the you know, the ele­phant in the room cre­ates ten­sion. Putting a rat on a table cre­ates inter­nal ten­sion, that’s not a fun thing. chuck­ing a moose on the table, you got to be real­ly damn strong to pick that thing up because they wake up 1000 pounds. But the point is to get that issue there. And it’s almost metaphor­i­cal­ly it’s like, you plug your nose and you say the words IE, you don’t want to do it, right. It’s like plug­ging her nose to jump into the water. It’s just you got to do it. Because oth­er­wise it’s it’s going to be worse. And we’re going to have a fake meet­ing and, and unfor­tu­nate­ly, and this will help us to get into our first point. Some peo­ple believe that being a ter­mi­nal­ly pos­i­tive is a much bet­ter lead­er­ship strat­e­gy. And talk­ing about prob­lems makes prob­lems big­ger. It’s a very com­mon belief like if we don’t talk about it, it’ll get bet­ter. Yeah,

Brad Giles 14:31

yeah, we should like pump up the team. We

Kevin Lawrence 14:33

should pump it up and be pos­i­tive and yes, we can and all this good stuff. Ah, it’s kind of a go back to our tooth metaphor. If you’ve got a cav­i­ty, not talk­ing about it and ignor­ing cav­i­ties, espe­cial­ly after a cer­tain point gen­er­al­ly they don’t go away. The pains not crit­i­cal away. There is a self heal­ing abil­i­ty for tooth inter­est­ing­ly, if it’s a minor one My den­tist told me that they actu­al­ly can self-heal some­times. But at a cer­tain point, it’s a point of no return. And so with these issues, some peo­ple think their job as a leader is to be pos­i­tive and to inspire peo­ple. Prob­lem is, if there’s a frickin ele­phant in the room and you’re not talk­ing about it, you have zero credibility.

Brad Giles 15:19

Yeah.

Kevin Lawrence 15:20

Because peo­ple look at you, because it’s like, they know the ele­phant exists. It’s not it’s not sur­pris­ing. Yeah, every week, most peo­ple know about these issues. They just see that the lead­er­ship’s too chick­en­shit to talk about it. Par­don my lan­guage, you know, yeah, the Leafs, the leader is just like, they know, why aren’t you address­ing Frank, who’s been here for 24 years? And does­n’t do it? or, or, or, you know, Julie, who’s tox­ic or what­ev­er, I’m just mak­ing up names. So it’s, it’s it’s peo­ple, a lot of peo­ple tried to be eter­nal­ly opti­mistic, but those are ama­teur lead­ers. You do need to be opti­mistic. But you also need to be real­is­tic to have faith and cred­i­bil­i­ty and to make the right deci­sions. You can­not only make the right deci­sions based so the sum­ma­rize a brand that I want to say. But it’s it’s the neg­a­tives only being pos­i­tive. You know, that is that maybe, maybe, you know, and even sales peo­ple, sales, peo­ple who are only pos­i­tive, don’t sell as well as sales peo­ple who also will tell the truth in some cas­es and point to a weak­ness­es in Robert Robert shell, Dini in his books has a great piece on that, which will we can get into anoth­er time. But go ahead read.

Brad Giles 16:38

There’s a time for being pos­i­tive. But it’s not all the time. And talk­ing about the bru­tal facts is not being the oppo­site of pos­i­tive, which is neg­a­tive. Talk­ing about the bru­tal facts, is sim­ply con­fronting the issues at hand, which if you do not con­front the issues, in deal­ing with facts, and not opin­ions, very impor­tant dis­tinc­tion, what are the bru­tal facts, not your opin­ion. If you don’t do that, and you’re only pos­i­tive all the time, you’re nev­er going to address these under­ly­ing issues, then peo­ple will become dis­en­gaged. But there is a time for being pos­i­tive. And that is, we have iden­ti­fied that this is bru­tal Fact num­ber one and two, and three, per­haps if you were doing an announce­ment to the lead­er­ship team, or the broad­er team, these are the bru­tal facts. And based on that this is our plan mov­ing for­ward. So you can cer­tain­ly be pos­i­tive about the plan and the out­comes, but not address­ing the bru­tal facts is a fun­da­men­tal flaw that can cre­ate real dys­func­tion in an organization.

Kevin Lawrence 17:58

Yes, and then sim­ple think­ing, is this because, you know, $100 prob­lems become $100,000 prob­lems. Yeah, you know, one tox­ic per­son can cause you to lose five great peo­ple. One angry cus­tomer, so I’ll give you an exam­ple. And this is an orga­ni­za­tion that inad­ver­tent­ly did it was called into a com­pa­ny to do some work. 2005 when I was 15, more than 15 years ago, awe­some com­pa­ny had had 50% growth for many years. They’re run­ning about 15 mil­lion in rev­enue at that point, but their growth stopped. Yeah, so they called me and we’re doing some strat­e­gy ses­sions. And we’re dig­ging around and, you know, around the time the econ­o­my was boom­ing, and there’s a Yeah, well, you know, the econ­o­my’s a lit­tle soft. I’m like, No, it’s not. So we start dig­ging around the busi­ness. And what was inter­est­ing is, is, you know, asked about a lot of things, what about your cus­tomers, our cus­tomers are hap­py, you know, our cus­tomers are like a top. When we want more, we just turn it on. direct quote. We want more busi­ness, we just turn on the top. So Oh, wow, that’s impres­sive nurs­ing that for? So I said, Well, what about cus­tomer feed­back? Oh, yeah, we’ve got an amaz­ing sys­tem for blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Okay. And have you looked at a receipt? No, we haven’t. But you know, we know what’s real­ly good. Okay, great. Can I get a copy of that? I said, and I swear Brad like you know, the car­toons real­ly see the steam com­ing out of the car­toon char­ac­ters ears when they’re angry. Yep. So on my way back I was read­ing and they gave me you know, a report print­ed back and I did they print­ed more stuff, you know, 20 pages 30 or prob­a­bly 30 lines a page of Excel with a com­ments. I just got to page two the cus­tomers were scream­ing in my ears. There were three issues in a pre­mi­um brand­ed com­pa­ny that was high­ly regard­ed three issues about three prod­ucts that were dri­ving the cus­tomers crazy. The exec­u­tives did not have clue. Yeah, they wrote a touch because they’re pissin their cus­tomers off, and a cou­ple of the prod­ucts were not good, and not up to their stan­dard. And and and that feed­back actu­al­ly was­n’t get­ting to the table. So it was­n’t even a case of that peo­ple knew it and weren’t say­ing it. Peo­ple did­n’t know it, because they weren’t actu­al­ly even look­ing. They did­n’t have the right data show­ing up in the meet­ing, to have that. And that’s why To this day, I always want to see cus­tomer data and employ­ee data, in addi­tion to finan­cial data in our meet­ings, because it’s not that the peo­ple need to declare the bru­tal facts, some­times the facts set that the report will tell us the bru­tal facts, the point of it is, is that it’s it’s insane­ly pow­er­ful, manda­to­ry. And and it cre­ates, so that com­pa­ny was grow­ing, you know, 50% a year, they hit about 50 mil­lion, it took three years to real­ly get the growth going grow­ing again, they killed the growth engine. Yeah, they did­n’t shrink, but they did­n’t grow.

Brad Giles 21:06

Yeah, and this is the oppor­tu­ni­ty. And what’s impor­tant is when it’s in a rhythm, so for me, it’s typ­i­cal­ly about every quar­ter, I reck­on that if you’re hav­ing this type of exer­cise, which is a ded­i­cat­ed, let’s say, half hour or more to what are the bru­tal facts, let’s say if it was every quar­ter as a part of your strate­gic plan­ning and exe­cu­tion frame­work, it’s a rhythm that these things tend to build up. If it was every day or every week, it would­n’t be enough. But being every sin­gle quar­ter, it’s enough time that these issues can build up to the point where there’s a lit­tle bit of ten­sion that needs to be released through this mech­a­nism for us to kind of free the path that we can con­tin­ue to grow. That rhythm of releas­ing that ten­sion, it means that peo­ple are able to look for­ward to it, they’re able to ana­lyze and think about it and think to them­selves as lead­er­ship team mem­bers. You know what, we real­ly need to talk about this at our oxide, we real­ly need to address this issue. So I had an issue recent­ly. One of the ele­phants in the room was we’re not, we’re not achiev­ing our rev­enue, bot­tom­ing our prof­it tar­gets. We’re not Jim­my, our prof­it tar­gets. Okay. Why is that? What’s the facts around that? It’s the first kind of ques­tion that we’ve got to get to what are the kind of facts that we know this is real? What’s the real issue here? So we dug into it. And it appears that one of the depart­ments, the divi­sions, was a longer stand­ing area of the busi­ness that there was an emo­tion­al attach­ment to, but they weren’t real­ly mak­ing the num­bers because the indus­try had changed, the indus­try had that com­po­nent where they sold into or that that part of the indus­try had changed enough that the mar­gins weren’t viable in this indus­try. Now, unless you had economies of scale, and no one real­ly want­ed to talk about that before that point. Because it was like, if we close our eyes, we love that part of the busi­ness so much, maybe we can just get on with it, maybe, you know, we can wor­ry about some­thing else. Or over­all, you know, we’re doing okay, we’re doing pret­ty good. But then, you know, we’ve got to pay out a cer­tain amount for the loss­es that that part of the busi­ness is mak­ing. So with­out that mech­a­nism, it would have tak­en much longer for us to find that out. And that’s the beau­ty when it’s in a cycli­cal rhythm, the ele­phants that we can keep ask­ing, like, keep cry­ing that ten­sion. Yeah. And

Kevin Lawrence 23:55

when you’re doing it, every quar­ter, you get into a flow where they’re always kind of on the table. And after, you know, a year or two of doing this, it just nat­u­ral­ly hap­pens. And it’s a way to help you recal­i­brate your plans. I mean, I’m sure some exam­ples, some oth­er ones that have come up that have been mas­sive. We had one that came up that although we were hav­ing record prof­it growth, we weren’t hav­ing unit growth. Hmm. So basi­cal­ly, we weren’t grow­ing, but we were mak­ing buck­et loads more mon­ey because one divi­sion was killing it like crazy. But the over­all busi­ness was­n’t. And that’s a con­cern. Because unit growth, no unit growth, but prof­it growth is not sus­tain­able. It’s great. Take it while you can. That was one anoth­er one that we saw. Just think we I mean, there’s one that a com­pa­ny did­n’t deal with was a mas­sive change in the indus­try. And they did­n’t quick­ly enough change their busi­ness mod­el. That’s a long time. And I don’t want to crit­i­cize the client. But that was a very painful one to watch, because they would­n’t make some tough calls around some bru­tal facts. We had anoth­er one as sim­ple. And this gets into, like, you know, in the process, is that the? How do you address them? So we prime peo­ple upfront with sur­veys to ask about the bru­tal facts so that we, you know, are pre­pared going in the room, as I men­tioned ear­li­er, then in the ses­sion, it’s about bru­tal facts. And then we put the ques­tion is, what are the bru­tal facts that we must address or crit­i­cal con­ver­sa­tions we need to have in this meet­ing, right, so we open up to both cat­e­gories. And we, we make a big list of them. And then we sort them out. And then depend­ing on what they are, we use that list as con­text for the rest of the meet­ing. Yes. And when we’re review­ing every­thing, we keep adding to it. And then when we’re decid­ing the pri­or­i­ties for the next quar­ter at the com­pa­ny lev­el depart­ment lev­el, we then go back and look at those to make sure that we’ve tak­en into account what we need to take into account. That’s the so that’s, that’s the bru­tal facts as con­text. But some­times there’s some­thing that needs to be debat­ed. And when we rank them, we’ll say, you know what, we need to dig into this one. So we take our num­ber one bru­tal fact. And you know, Jim Collins taught me this exer­cise, I love it. And we list all the facts about the bru­tal fact, because it’s already sen­si­tive enough to put the bru­tal facts on the table. So I’ll give you an exam­ple. This is when the finance team was fail­ing in a com­pa­ny and not giv­ing the com­pa­ny what it need­ed. It was a seri­ous issue. The CFO at the time, I think was just over his head. And he was a won­der­ful man. But it was hurt­ing the busi­ness. So that’s basi­cal­ly Hey, you know, an exec­u­tive in our team are doing their job, not a nice con­ver­sa­tion to have. So we took, you know, not able to get what we need from finance as the bru­tal fact, it was num­ber one, we split up into groups, and every­one made a list about the facts about the bru­tal fact not the opin­ions, because that’s judg­men­tal. Yep. What are the spe­cif­ic facts, I can’t get my mar­gin report. Um, my inven­to­ry report does­n’t cor­re­late with the inven­to­ry count, or what­ev­er it is, like spe­cif­ic things or requests are tak­ing sev­en days to get done. So we mapped them all out, and we cre­at­ed a mas­sive list of the facts about the bru­tal facts, then, now we can have an intel­li­gent on emo­tion­al and judg­men­tal con­ver­sa­tion of say­ing, okay, by that time, the CFO was like, Wow, this is so help­ful. And then we went and worked on the two or three things that we thought would ask them add the most val­ue. So list of the bru­tal facts, pri­or­i­tize them. What’s that? Num­ber one? And if indeed, you do need to debate it, you think it’s that type of thing that won’t get tak­en care of by those? What are the major facts about the bru­tal facts, then have a con­ver­sa­tion? So you can you know, you can dig into almost any­thing with that very nice way to work with it?

Brad Giles 28:08

So yes, that Yeah, that’s right. So what we’re hear­ing is that it’s not just say­ing the this is the bru­tal fact, it’s what you do with it. You can’t just say, there’s a bru­tal fact our finance depart­ment isn’t per­form­ing win­ning to, to then say, Okay, what are the facts about that? Or what’s the real issue he or dig deep­er? Because in my expe­ri­ence, it’s that dig­ging deep­er, that helps to give us the insight for real­ly what we want to know is at the end, like what do we need to do about it? In the next 90 days, what is the actions that we need to do to begin to address this ele­phant because it’s all well and good, go and talk about these things. But unless there’s some action, every­one will feel it’s worthless.

Kevin Lawrence 28:58

Yeah, and the thing is, and you don’t always need to take action. Some of the stuff is just, it’s just aware­ness, right, there will be a cou­ple of things, oth­er­wise, you’re going to put too many things to do. Yeah. And then at the end, we’ll also basi­cal­ly, you make your list, pri­or­i­tize it, if you’re going to dig into the one, you get all the facts, and you can have that strate­gic dis­cus­sion, which are real­ly rich to do with the team, and then dri­ve to a con­clu­sion. With the oth­ers. You can just say, is there any action that needs to take here, and I might go into one of the quar­ter­ly goals for the com­pa­ny, it might go into a depart­ment plant, and there might be one that sep­a­rate­ly gets actioned or, you know, just like a poten­tial feel­ing you might need. The den­tist says let’s keep an eye on it. And we’ll look at it again in six months, because these things will come up. The key is to be able to know that you’re address­ing these major issues that might get in your way, and that peo­ple can have trust and have faith that we are going to deal with them and You know, there’s no, there’s one more exam­ple I’ll share with you. You know, where there’s, there’s a bit of bru­tal facts about a Bud­dha con­cern about anoth­er depart­ment or a sen­si­tive issue that prob­a­bly is not appro­pri­ate to real­ly dig into in the room. But that’s what the CEO puts up their hand and says, Hey, I got this one. You know, I’ll have a con­ver­sa­tion lat­er. This is not, this is not an appro­pri­ate forum for us to dig into this, but I assure you that I will take care of it. So this stuff is is not rock­et sci­ence. It’s just counter intu­itive. And, and who would think that spend­ing 15 or 20 min­utes every time we have a quar­ter­ly strat­e­gy meet­ing, to address the neg­a­tives, in the end can be one of the most pos­i­tive things that you can do?

Brad Giles 30:43

Yeah, I can remem­ber before I start­ed hav­ing this as an agen­da item at our meet­ings com­pared to after, and it’s trans­for­ma­tion­al, it real­ly does make a huge dif­fer­ence. And most of the del­e­gates would say this is, you know, it real­ly feels like a much more pow­er­ful meet­ing now. And the irony is, is that all we’re doing is apply­ing the fil­ter of let’s not, you know, let’s not be light about this, let’s talk about the real­ly, you know, the real­ly big issues that were reluc­tant to dog about, which cre­ates a much more mean­ing­ful meet­ing. Yeah, so I guess the, you know, you said there, we don’t always have to act on the Mall. I think at the very least we’ve got to ask, Is there any­thing wor­thy of effort? No, is an accept­able answer. But is it any­thing wor­thy of effort? Because Well,

Kevin Lawrence 31:42

I changed the ques­tion. No, Brad, not on my ques­tion is, yeah. Is there any­thing that we must do?

Brad Giles 31:49

Yeah,

Kevin Lawrence 31:50

yep. Because it’s all wor­thy of effort. We’re try­ing to only address stuff that mat­ters in these meet­ings, which is insane­ly hard.

Brad Giles 31:58

Yeah. Yeah.

Kevin Lawrence 31:59

You know, and that’s, and that’s Sor­ry, I sor­ry, I just have stronger lan­guage on that for me. Because, you know, it’s just so easy to come up with way too much stuff to

Brad Giles 32:08

  1. Oh, for sure. That we want to have action items out of it. You know, if we’re run­ning the exer­cise, we’ve got to have we’ve got on land with some­thing at the end, we’ve got to land with some kind of res­o­lu­tion, or peo­ple have got to feel like we’ve closed the loop. There’s no point just talk­ing about them and then say­ing, Well, that was good. All right.

Kevin Lawrence 32:31

No, I’ll find that half of them get tak­en account of the quar­ter­ly goals that we set. Yeah. And they become a lit­tle pieces in there that we’re going to address, it guides that think­ing, I find half of them don’t get addressed. were to say, Okay, you know what, we can let that one go for now. Because, you know, again, we’re it’s about con­stant pri­or­i­ti­za­tion. But yeah, it’s super pow­er­ful thing. So the thing that we would leave peo­ple think­ing about is, what would be the point next, when you would talk about bru­tal facts? And what is the best way that you think you should approach that? Do you want peo­ple to write them on post it notes and put them up on a wall? If you’re, you know, in a face to face meet­ing? Or if you’re on mur­al, if you’re a dig­i­tal plat­form? Do you want to pre sur­vey peo­ple? Do you want peo­ple to scrape through data sources and put them togeth­er even as a side note, you know, and when we’re doing these sur­veys, you know, many of the com­pa­nies will break up into groups. And peo­ple will pull out the big high­lights from the sur­veys and their and their expe­ri­ence. And they’ll put their top three for the group so we can share those. But then they will also sep­a­rate­ly pull out the biggest bru­tal facts, you know, one of the com­pa­nies we take about an hour, every quar­ter, to do the pos­i­tives, and then an hour for the bru­tal facts. And they they will have read the sur­veys and talk to their teams. And they come up with the biggest ones that they think we need to address as a team activ­i­ty as part of and it’s an hour and a two day meet­ing. And it’s it’s high­ly, high­ly effective.

Brad Giles 34:03

Indeed, indeed, yeah, it’s such an impor­tant thing that we need to to address con­front the bru­tal facts. Again, we rec­om­mend at least quar­ter­ly, we rec­om­mend that all of the team pre­pare and think about it, and that we can close the exer­cise say­ing that’s it, there’s noth­ing else that that we’re reluc­tant to talk about or issues that are there that we need to kind of cov­er off. And it gives you great sense of clo­sure for every­one. Well, those those those great a very

Kevin Lawrence 34:35

actu­al­ly some­thing I just want to add in for remote. And if you’re uncom­fort­able with doing this, and if you think that some of the issues might be too sen­si­tive, that’s where facil­i­ta­tors come in. Because I don’t a lot of the teams because I’m in the room or you’re in the room or my teams in the room. It makes it safer and it’s eas­i­er to have respect­ful debates about These top­ics, so you might be a part­ner­ship and have a cou­ple part­ners. And there could be a cou­ple bru­tal facts, that you’re not com­fort­able debat­ing as a part­ner’s, well then get some­body to facil­i­tate that meet­ing for you. So you can deal with those issues. You know, it’s it’s, it’s it’s okay to get help on these things because some­times the bru­tal facts kind of bru­tal. And and you might need some addi­tion­al assistance.

Brad Giles 35:24

Yeah, that I it’s fun­ny you said that, because I was actu­al­ly think­ing that as we were going through the episode today that there have been peo­ple who’ve said to me, we can’t do it with­out you in the room. And what I mean by that is, it’s very hard to be absolute­ly, like, we cre­ate that envi­ron­ment where peo­ple are com­plete­ly com­fort­able. And it’s a con­trolled envi­ron­ment, which, which real­ly does mat­ter. Well, that was that was a good way to close. So a quick sum­ma­ry, I guess, of where we’ve been, we’ve got to con­front the bru­tal facts on a reg­u­lar basis, because these things will creep up on you, these things will fes­ter. And then unless you address them on a reg­u­lar struc­tured basis, you could look around and have all of these fes­ter­ing rats or noos­es or ele­phants, or what­ev­er you call it. These things all around the busi­ness that are just prob­lems that are just fes­ter­ing away that aren’t being addressed. You can’t always be pos­i­tive, our rec­om­men­da­tion is once per quar­ter, and how to address it. We don’t have to act on them all we’ve got to iden­ti­fy what are the big things that we must act on to use Kev­in’s must phrase there. And then real­ly dig­ging into the list. if you so desire, you can say what’s the num­ber one what are the actu­al facts around this? Okay, so with that, let’s move to close. This has been the growth whis­pers pod­cast. I’m Brad Giles. You can find me at evo­lu­tion part​ners​.com dot A you and as always joined today by Kevin Lawrence, who you can find at Lawrence and co​.com. I hope you have a great week. We look for­ward to talk to you again next week about build­ing endur­ing great com­pa­nies but for now, have a great week.


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