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What Can You Stop Doing?

July 20, 2021

I once worked with a natur­o­path­ic doc­tor who solved an issue for me by ask­ing me to stop doing some­thing. My face had been react­ing to some­thing by break­ing out and, after tests, the solu­tion was to stop eat­ing eggs and almonds.

It’s a great exam­ple of how, some­times, solv­ing prob­lems is not what you think it needs to be.

Some­times, to fix a prob­lem you just need to stop the input that’s mess­ing it up.

In the great book Nec­es­sary End­ings: The Employ­ees, Busi­ness and Rela­tion­ships That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to Move For­ward, Dr. Hen­ry Cloud talks about the ben­e­fit of proac­tive­ly end­ing things in order to make our pro­fes­sion­al and per­son­al lives better.

After all, we only have so much time and so much ener­gy. And when you look through this win­dow, you think about what you are doing and why – and then con­tem­plate what to stop doing to free up the sys­tem and move for­ward faster and better.

For exam­ple, from a per­son­al per­spec­tive, some peo­ple stopped drink­ing alco­hol because they did­n’t like how it made them feel — and some peo­ple start­ed because they liked how it made them feel.

From a work per­spec­tive, some peo­ple decid­ed to stop pro­duc­ing reports that cre­ate no val­ue or to elim­i­nate key parts of a process that are only done out of habit.

The Chal­lenge

  • What one or two things might you stop, in each area of Work, Self and Life — no mat­ter how risky or uncom­fort­able for you or some­one else – that caus­es you stress or drag?
  • How can you remove that fric­tion so that you can feel better?

More about this on this episode of The Growth Whis­per­ers pod­cast where we also talk about the Stop Doing List.


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We help high-achiev­ing lead­ers to have it all – a great busi­ness and a reward­ing life. Con­tact us for sim­ple and impact­ful advice. No BS. No fluff.


Lawrence & Co’s work focuses on sustainable and enhanced growth for you and your business. Our diverse and experienced group of advisors can help your leaders and executive teams stay competitive through the use of various learning tools including workshops, webinars, executive retreats, or one-to-one coaching.

We help high-achieving leaders to have it all – a great business and a rewarding life. Contact us for simple and impactful advice. No BS. No fluff.