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Seven Years On, Reflections on Your Oxygen Mask First: Make Yourself Useless

November 11, 2024

The growth and devel­op­ment of peo­ple is the high­est call­ing of leadership.”

-Har­vey S. Fire­stone, founder, Fire­stone Tire & Rub­ber Company

At a very prac­ti­cal lev­el, it’s a CEO’s job to help the amaz­ing peo­ple you’ve hired to become great leaders.

And, in dis­cus­sions with hun­dreds of exec­u­tives about this chal­lenge, it’s clear that for most peo­ple this is often the hardest.

Watch the Video: Make Your­self Useless

An Invest­ment in Your Team

Only with an A Play­er team in place can a CEO spend time focus­ing on growth and look­ing for the next place to go, and to win and thrive as a business.

And that requires an invest­ment of time to hire, teach, coach, chal­lenge and pro­vide feed­back to peo­ple, to give them the skills and con­fi­dence to man­age day-to-day busi­ness with­out you.

But, some­times, a CEO who doesn’t want to go through the pains of hir­ing some­one new, decides to con­tin­ue with the dev­il they know. Or they get trapped hand­hold­ing aver­age play­ers they feel loy­al to, either because they’ve worked well togeth­er in the past or because they care deeply about them.

Stay tuned for more about this in my new book, as I talk about what I call the prob­lem of pond hock­ey. It’s about the way that we try to work with who­ev­er shows up at the pond to play ver­sus think­ing more like an NHL coach who is con­stant­ly scout­ing for only the best talent.

A Cat­a­lyst for Change

This chap­ter has often been a cat­a­lyst to show CEOs and exec­u­tives we work with, who see that it’s pos­si­ble to make the shift to become much more strate­gic, in their role, with a lot less time spent on oper­a­tional issues because their team is so capable.

And CEOs and exec­u­tives, who have become notably more effec­tive at mak­ing them­selves use­less, are those who accept noth­ing less than an excep­tion­al A Play­er team.

A great exam­ple is Amish Shah, CEO of Kem Krest, who real­ized that, for him to be much more use­less in his orga­ni­za­tion, he need­ed to make some notable changes on his exec­u­tive team. Here are links to:

The Chal­lenge

  • Are at least 80% of your direct reports A Play­ers in their role and a delight to work with? If yes, you should celebrate.
  • If not, what can you do to build the team you real­ly want

Your Oxy­gen Mask First Resources

  • Page 140: Kevin’s Per­for­mance Rat­ing Sys­tem to get clear on where your team is today.

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Lawrence & Co’s work focus­es on sus­tain­able and enhanced growth for you and your busi­ness. Our diverse and expe­ri­enced group of advi­sors can help your lead­ers and exec­u­tive teams stay com­pet­i­tive through the use of var­i­ous learn­ing tools includ­ing work­shops, webi­na­rs, exec­u­tive retreats, or one-to-one coaching.

We help high-achiev­ing lead­ers to have it all – a great busi­ness and a reward­ing life. Con­tact us for sim­ple and impact­ful advice. No BS. No fluff.


Lawrence & Co’s work focuses on sustainable and enhanced growth for you and your business. Our diverse and experienced group of advisors can help your leaders and executive teams stay competitive through the use of various learning tools including workshops, webinars, executive retreats, or one-to-one coaching.

We help high-achieving leaders to have it all – a great business and a rewarding life. Contact us for simple and impactful advice. No BS. No fluff.